This book, Understand Him and Keep Him, is a book written to enlighten women who are fortunate enough to know a man they love and want to understand. The author states relationships are like board games; you must be playing the same game and also playing by the rules if you have any chance of winning. This book intends to present the rules of relationships. The author realized after interviewing men in her practice, that women were often unaware of pertinent universal truths, when relating to men. The author seeks to chronicle many of these truths in this writing. She encourages women to use the work as a tool, a resource, if you will, to build the relationship they desire. She emphasizes that when you understand your man, you will know how to keep your man. Begin building today.